Tuesday 3 April 2012

I have to admit I don't really feel like blogging tonight...but I don't want to worry anyone by not writing so i'll be quick.

Was a bit of a tough day today but some progress was made.  Mom's epidural was removed.  The plus side is that it's one step closer to being able to go home the down side was that the new iv pain medications made her TERRIBLY nauseous.  For most of the day today she felt miserable --
She also had to have her IV replaced today and the lab tech managed to miss 3 times (my Grandma would not have been impressed haha).  After three tries Geoff graciously intervened and popped one in on the first try.  I remember almost 10 years ago now Geoff learning how to start IV's, practicing on mom at the kitchen table, she was black and blue for weeks....that sacrifice paid off today!!  She did manage to get in a few good laps of the ward ... but otherwise had a pretty low key day.  The swallow test has been confirmed for next Monday - also a little disappointing but not a major set back.  Tomorrow the chest tubes may come out - which would be great.  They are one of the major sources of discomfort so once they go the pain should improve and the nausea should too.

One day at a time.  We have to constantly remind ourselves that this is going to be a very long recovery.  It will probably be a good 6  months before mom feels like her old self.  Even though we'd love to snap our fingers and have her be better --- patience is key :)

Mom's doing great - she remains positive and everyday is a day closer to coming home.  She does have her phone now and has access to her emails.  She's not quite up to replying but if you send her something she will receive it!  Thanks again for all your positive thoughts and support.


3 comments:

  1. Hey Kelli - I am amazed it has taken this long for mom to have a not so good day. I know she will do better day by day. Good job Geoff on the IV. There is nothing worse than having someone poke around and keep missing. We all must keep our spirits up to help Leslie with her battle! Better day today I am sure.

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  2. Hey Kelli, my name is Amy - you don't know me but I know how you feel. Tren had her chest tubes in for almost 4 weeks and they were hell. Once out, recovery time excelerated. When I came home every night from the hospital I was tired and didn't feel like writing everyone an update.

    What I learned afterwards was that there were so many people waiting every night for Tren's progress report. Her sisters and family in Australia and friends around the world.

    You are in the same boat. There are so many of us waiting daily for Leslie's - Mom's progress report because we love her and want to know that she is doing well.

    May these few words of encouragement keep you writing to us every day...there is a lot of love out there for you all and we just want to make sure you are all doing ok.

    Keep blogging Kelli....love to all of you. Amy and Tren

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  3. Dear Kelli:
    As Amy put it so well "there is a lot of love out there for you all" Don't know where you are all getting the so positive strength that you all have, when you are all, I am sure emotionally exhausted. I just so appreciate you taking your precious time to let us know the amazing progress your Mom continues to show all! Thank-you so much for blogging and keeping us so well informed. You, Geoff, your Dad and your Mom are showing us all the true meaning of family and love and I know because of that your Mom is going to win this race. You are all taking such good care of your Mom, please try and find some time to take care of yourselves too! Big hugs to all of you!
    Love Cheryl(Mrs. Harrison, as you so cutely called me the other day Kelli!)

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